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She said | He said 06.07.06 |
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Written by Jennifer and Jon
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Wednesday, 07 June 2006 |
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Q. I’m worried that I’m coming up short, if you know what I mean, in my sexual performance. I hear some women say size doesn’t matter, and others say it does. Recently, I got so uptight about what my new lover thought, I couldn’t perform. Does it, or does it not, matter?
—Feeling Like Mini-Me in Fort Collins
JENNIFER: Wow, I don’t have much advice to offer you. I’m hoping that Jon has some valuable input here, but I’ll do my best!
Try not to stress so much about how you’re doing because, obviously, it’s going to hinder your performance. Ultimately, the experience should be about making love and, if that’s the case, you should be comfortable enough to talk to your partner about what works best for the both of you (because you’re in love... right?).
JON: No, I don’t know what you mean. ... Anyway, there are many things you can do before and after that to make sure her mind is satisfied. Get off your manly high horse and think of it from her perspective.
She’ll care more that you’re trying to satisfy her both in and out of the bedroom that your little guy will be an afterthought.
Q. I’ve been dating this guy for a couple months now, and I’ve got a problem. I am really attracted to his roommate, and I think the feeling is mutual. This makes me think the guy I’m seeing isn’t really the one for me. But what do I do if his roommate is?
—Aroused by the Roommate in Loveland
JENNIFER: You’re right, this guy probably isn’t the one for you. If you’ve only been dating the guy for a few months and your mind is already starting to wander, odds are he won’t hold your attention in the long run. As far as the roommate situation, I wouldn’t go there.
If you care at all about the guy you’re dating now, you’ll put your own desires aside and respect the fact that pursuing something with his roommate will only hurt him and potentially wreck their friendship.
JON: Saddle up partner, it’s going to be a rough ride. The very second you tell either of them, you’ve ruined your relationship and theirs.
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